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ED Galing with his lifetime Achievement Award ( photo from Philadelphia Inquirer--Luke Rafferty) |
By Melissa Dribben, Inquirer Staff Writer
Posted: August 25, 2013
Ed Galing cannot get enough.
Enough attention. Enough praise. Enough love. Enough life.
And if he hasn't had his fill at 96, he is unlikely to ever feel completely sated.
"I love publicity," Galing said, with characteristic candor. "I'm famous!"
In
June, the mayor of Hatboro gave Galing a lifetime achievement award for
his more than 16 years as poet laureate of the Montgomery County town.
"It's
like being in the Kennedy Center, and the president puts a medal around
their neck," Galing said in his gravelly voice. "Lifetime achievement!"
he marveled. "Not everybody gets that. You have to earn it."
These
days, Galing does not get many visitors. His sons, both in their 70s,
live too far away to make the trip very often to the family's brick
Colonial, where Galing still lives. And the grandchildren and
great-grandchildren? "They're just too busy," Galing said.
Since
his wife, Esther, died six years ago, he spends most days in his own
still-plucky company. Alone, that is, except for an aide, who comes for a
few hours a day, and his most loyal companion: a seafoam-green IBM
Selectric typewriter.
Every morning at 5, he wakes up, gets out of
the hospital bed in his first-floor office, transfers himself into his
motorized wheelchair, and hums over to the desk to write for an hour or
two.
"I write whatever comes into my head," he said. "Then I put
it away and look at it the next day to see if I still like it. If I
don't, I throw it away."
That rarely happens.
"I'm a good man, and I know how to write," he said. "Can I read you a poem?"
Without
waiting for an answer, he pushes his thick thumb against the joystick
of his wheelchair, so well-used that the black vinyl is as cracked and
wrinkled as old skin. The chair catches on the threshold to the living
room, and he coaxes it onward - "Go! Go!" - then bursts through into the
living room.
The
tchotchkes, vases, and family
photographs remain exactly the way Esther left them, except for a new
couch and armchair - gifts from one of their sons.
"He told me he's going to take care of me the best he can," said Galing. "He told me he loved me."
Galing reaches into a bookcase and pulls out one of the many collections of his work.
The
World War II veteran graduated from South Philadelphia High School and
worked in a variety of jobs, first at the Willow Grove Naval Air Station
and, in his later years, processing sales documents for a car dealer.
His last job, when he was 80, was custodial work at a restaurant.
That
was the year he began writing in earnest, for personal expression, yes,
but always, too, in the hope that his work would be recognized.
"Now, I'm in more than 400 publications," he said. "It's like George Bush's Mission Accomplished! Except this is real."
Real
enough, in any case, to fill the deeply human need to feel significant.
Especially at this far end of the trail. Hard of hearing and crippled
by arthritis, Galing writes to be heard. To resist fading into his own
shadow.
"If I was 60 right now," he reminisced in a recent letter,
"I would be driving a car, going on vacation, making love with my wife,
enjoying family picnics . . . and all of us would be young, and
laughing, and so very happy."
Describing his life now, he
continued: "My fingers are curled, and I live in my wheelchair all the
time. However, I can still write."
Galing's poems have appeared in
a few small literary magazines, like Red Wheelbarrow and Rattle, and he
is a regular contributor to a newspaper for the homeless in Nashville.
Much of his work is self-published, such as
Pushcarts and Peddlers,
a collection of pieces about his childhood in the early 1900s among
other poor Jewish immigrants on the Lower East Side of New York.
"It didn't sell as much as I had hoped," he said. "People don't read much anymore."
For a moment, his brave front faltered.
"I'm not really famous," he said. Then he rallied. "But I'm very well-known and very well-liked in the field."
He
came too late to computers to master the new technology, he said, but
Doug Holder, a fellow poet in Massachusetts, helps him blog by proxy,
and praises him as "a poet of the Greatest Generation."
Galing
found the poem he was looking for in the bookcase. It describes his
childhood in New York, the rooming house where he lived with his mother,
and his habit of sitting outside during the hot summers, writing poems
on sheets of paper that he would fold into paper airplanes, launch, and
watch flutter to the sidewalk.
where the garbage collectors
would sweep it
away
with the rest
of the garbage.
Galing, proud, smiled with satisfaction, plumping up his doughy cheeks.
"Sometimes,
I wonder what am I doing, living here in this house with only health
aides. It's lonely," he said. "But I don't want to die. I'm going to
keep writing till the end of my life."