A Memorial Reading for Ed Galing by Alan Catlin

A Memorial Reading for Ed Galing

By Alan Catlin

The last Sunday of the year is the traditional poetry service at the Schenectady Unitarian Universalist church. I signed up at the last possible moment this year and faced a dilemma as to what to read. As I told the congregation, when you have tens of thousands of poems choosing one that was appropriate is extremely difficult. Generally, when I don’t know what to read, I read the last piece I wrote which was to be a poem as epistle, in memory of Ed Galing, who had recently died. As with others of my correspondence friends, a letter poem seems the most appropriate way of paying tribute; addressing the person directly as if writing a letter they would actually read. Every year, on vacation, I write a post card to Dave Church from Block island, as I did when he was alive. I see no reason to discontinue the practice now that he is no longer here to read it. He is alive to me in my heart and always will be, as will Ed. 

The problem was, my last poem was not finished yet; his passing is still too new for the kind of distance needed to write the kind of poem he deserves. Instead I tried to find a piece that Ed would approve of. As I said to the congregation, Ed was a simple man, a humble man, who wrote up until the day he died. Apparently that included letters to many he felt closest too knowing the end was near. I wrote back to Ed right away, after receiving my last from him, thinking you never knew which letter would be the last one. Ed was 96 after all, the poetic grandfather I had never known. As I pointed out with reference to the previous reader , who read a poem by Wordsworth’s ships passing in the night, our letters crossed in the mail. 

Ed embodied the virtues that I consider the most important in a man: he loved simply and well, especially his family, his beloved wife, Esther, to whom he was married for 67 years and whose death he never recovered from. He knew poverty but it his spirit knew great riches and with that in mind I read the following poem dedicated to Ed Galing 96.

Love in a Time of War

You can see them, the pregnant women, the nursing mothers,

the lovers holding hands

Their ears wired for sound, one thousand songs for liquid days,

a herald angel’s apocalyptic ode

And for some, the bombs are falling now, all the highways are

mined, the mangled fields are as unsafe as any road

The bombs falling are an aphrodisiac, the shock and awe of love

among the ruins; all their exposed flesh burned where it is

touched

Even when the war is ten thousand miles away

Ten thousand miles or five thousand, it makes no difference, war

is simply something just beyond the horizon and love is what

happens right here

Right here where the black hawks are flying, where the bombs are

smart, the missiles guided, precision piloted reminding us it

is not so much how the bombs are directed but where they land

And who they land on that matters, distance is a factor in a time of war

In a time when we have come to love the bomb more than we love our

fellow man, more than we love ourselves

Maybe, what we know is not love at all but something more primitive,

something bestial and impure

Something that causes us to believe that we are no longer descended from

Angels, unless the angels are the exterminating ones, the kind that

fly on the wings of stealth bombers that inflict their death, unseen,

from above

Consider what they have wrought; consider the light from burning cities as a

celestial event, a fireworks display, a celebration for the dead, for love

in a time of war

Love in a time of war is all we have.

Cherish it.

****Alan Catlin  has published well over sixty chapbooks and full length books of both prose and poetry.